WHEN THE WIFE IS NOT A PRACTICING CHRISTIAN

What if the husband is the practicing Christian and the wife is not? The Bible gives direction for such situations. It says:  "If any brother has an unbelieving wife, and yet she is agreeable to dwelling with him, let him not leave her." (1 Corinthians 7:12) It also admonishes husbands: "Keep loving your wives." - Colossians 3:19.

If you are the husband of a wife with such a faith different from yours, be especially careful to show respect for your wife and consideration for her feelings. As an adult, she deserves a measure of freedom to practice her religious beliefs, even if you disagree with them.  The first time you talk to her about your faith, do not expect her to disregard long-held beliefs in favor of something new. Instead of abruptly saying that practices she and her family have cherished for a long time are false, patiently endeavor to reason with her from the Scriptures.  It may be that she feels neglected if you devote a great deal of time to the activities of the congregation.  She may oppose  your efforts to serve Jehovah, yet the basic message  my simply be:  "I need more of your time!" Be patient.  With your loving consideration, in time she may be helped to embrace true worship. -Colossians 3:12-14; 1 Peter 3:8, 9. 

Next time: TRAINING THE CHILDREN

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996