THE VALUE OF SELF-CONTROL

King Solomon said:  "As a city broken through, without a wall, is the man tha that has no restraint for his spirit."  (Proverbs 25:28; 29:11)  'Restraining one's spirit,' exercising self-control, is vital for those who want a happy marriage.  Surrendering to destructive emotions, such as rage or immoral lust, will cause damage that takes years to repair-if it can be repaired at all.

Of course, no descendant of Adam can full control his imperfect flesh.  (Romans 7:21, 22) Still, self-control is a fruit of the spirit.  (Galatians 5:22, 23) Hence, God's spirit will produce self-control in  us if we pray for this quality, if we apply the appropriate counsel that is found in the Scriptures, and if we associate with others who manifest it and avoid  those who do not.  (Psalm 119:100, 101, 130; Proverbs 13:20; 1 Peter 4:7)  Such a course will help us to "flee from fornication,"  even when we are tempted.  (1 Corinthians 6:18)  we will reject violence and will avoid or conquer alcoholism. And we will deal more calmly  with provocations and difficult situations.  May all-including children-learn to cultivate this vital fruit of the spirit. -Psalm 119:1, . 

Next time: A PROPER VIEW OF HEADSHIP

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996