What Makes a Good Friend?

1. Show That You Really Care

That to me, means, not faking it, for one thing, for another it is someone you can count on any time, not just when it is convenient for them or you.  True friend ship involves commitment. In other words, a good friend feels a responsibility toward you, and he/she really cares about you. Of course, such commitment is two-way, and it requires hard work and sacrifice on both sides. But the rewards are worth the effort. Ask yourself, 'Am I willing to give of myself, my time, and my resources for my friend?'  Remember, to have a good friend, you first need to be a good friend.

WHAT PEOPLE LOOK FOR IN A FRIEND 

Irene: "Like cultivating a beautiful garden, building a friendship requires a lot of time and care. Start by wanting to be a good friend yourself. Be generous in showing affection and personal interest. And be willing to sacrifice your time when you are needed." 

Luis Alfonso:  "Modern day society encourages  egotism rather than altruism.  So it means a lot when someone takes a sincere interest in your without necessarily expecting anything in return."  

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY? 

"Just as you want men to do to you/for you, do the same to/for them.  Practice giving, and people will give to you." (Luke 6:31, 38)  Here Jesus recommends true unselfishness and generosity. Such generosity nurtures good friendships. If you expend yourself in behalf of your friends without expecting anything in return, they will naturally feel drawn to you. 

Next time: What Makes a Good Friend?/2. Be a Good Communicator

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