Five Bible Principles/How to Be a Good Father

4. Love and Respect Your Wife

The way a father exercises his role as a husband is certain to affect the children. One group of experts on child development explains:  "One of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother. . . . A father and mother who respect each other and let their children know it provide a secure environment for them." -The Importance of Fathers in the Healthy Development of Children.

5. Apply God's Practical Wisdom

Fathers who have heartfelt love for God can give their children a most precious heritage-an intimate relationship with their heavenly Father.

After decades of hard work raising six children, Antonio, one of Jehovah Witnesses, received the following note from one of his daughters:  "Dear Dad, I just wanted to thank you for raising me to love Jehovah God, my neighbor, and myself-that is, to be a well-rounded individual. You showed me that you care about me personally.  Thank you, Dad, for putting Jehovah first in your life and treating your children as gifts from God!" 

Bible Principle: "You must love Jehovah, your God with all your heart and all your soul and all your vital force. And these words that I am commanding you today must prove to be on your heart." -Deuteronomy 6:5, 6. 

It is obvious that there is more involved in fatherhood than these five points and that, realistically, even when you try your  best to be a good father, you are not going to be a perfect one. But to the extent that you apply these principles in a loving and balanced way, you really can be a good father.

Next time: Five Bible Principles/ Conclusion of How to Be a Good Father-A Good Father Is Not Too Busy

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