When a Loved One Is Sick

Medical appointments and hospital stays can be nerve-racking. As Maribel's experience shows, the assistance of a friend or a relative can be very helpful-possibly even life-saving. How can you help a loved one? 

Before the visit. Help the patient write down his symptoms as well as any medications or supplements he takes. Also list any questions  that should be asked  of the physician. Help your friend recall any details of his condition or any family history of the illness. Do not assume that the doctor already knows those details or will ask for them. 

During the visit.  Be sure you  and the patient understand what the doctor says. Ask questions, but avoid making assertions. Allow the patient  to ask questions and to speak for himself. Pay attention, and take careful notes. Ask about any treatment options. In some cases, it may be wise to suggest to the patient that he get a second opinion. 

After the visit.  Review the appointment with the patient. Make sure that he gets the right medication. Encourage him to take the medication as prescribed and to inform the doctor immediately of any adverse reaction. Urge the patient  to keep a positive outlook, and encourage him  to follow any additional instructions, such as that he get a follow-up treatment. Help him to learn  more about his condition.  

Next time: When a Loved One Is Sick - In the Hospital

From the Awake!  magazine