Do You "Safeguard Practical Wisdom"?

HOW WILL IT HELP MY FAMILY?

Practical wisdom can safeguard families. For example, the Bible urges a wife to have "deep respect" for her husband.  (Ephesians 5:33)  How can a husband gain deep respect?  If he forcefully or harshly demands it, he will have short-term results.  To avoid confrontation, the wife of such a man may him a measure of respect when he is present. Yet, would she be inclined to respect him when he is not there?  Most likely that would not happen.  He needs to consider what will bring long-term results.  If he reflects the fruitage of the spirit, being loving and kind, he will earn her deep respect. Of course, a Christian wife should show respect for her husband whether he earns it or not. - Galatians 5:22, 23. 

The Bible also says that a husband should his wife.  (Ephesians 5:28, 33) In an effort to secure her husband's love, a wife may reason that it is better to hide unpleasant things from him that he has a right to know.  Really, though, does that reflect practical wisdom?  Later, when he fins out what was hidden, what will be the result?  Will he love her more? That could be difficult for him. Instead, if she finds an appropriate time to explain unpleasant things calmly, her husband will likely appreciate her honesty. Now his love for her will grow. 

Children should obey their parents and be disciplined in Jehovah's ways.  (Ephesians 6:1, 4) Does this mean that parents should make sure that  a child has a long list of dos and don'ts? Much more is involved that just knowing the rules of the house or the punishment for misconduct. A parent with practical wisdom  helps his child to understand why he should obey.  

For example, suppose a child speaks disrespectfully to one of his parent. Speaking harshly or punishing  on impulse may embarrass the child or forced him into silence. Yet, in his heart he may be resentful, which could cause him to draw away from his parents. 

Next time: Do You "Safeguard Practical Wisdom"?/ Conclusion of: HOW WILL IT HELP MY FAMILY?

From the Watchtower magazine