HOW CAN PEOPLE MAKE PEACE?

Frank and Jerry were good neighbors-that is, until Jerry held a late-night party.  When Frank complained about the noise, Jerry took offense at his manner.  They argued. After that, they avoided each other.

FRANK and Jerry faced a common problem. When two people have a difference, both often go away angry, perhaps blaming each other. If they maintain this stance, estrangement may develop.

Perhaps you have experience a similar situation, if so, you  likely took no pleasure in it!  Indeed, most of us want to live in peace and harmony with our friends and neighbors. How, though, can we so despite occasional upsets?   Can we rise above negative attitudes and hurt feelings?  Can we settle our differences amicably. 

Consider Frank and Jerry's predicament. Basically, their friendship began to unravel when they took several wrong steps:  (1) Jerry was inconsiderate, (2) Frank expressed his annoyance  in a way that upset Jerry.  (3) both lost their temper, and (4) both refused to yield. 

In time, however, reason prevailed. The two men put their differences behind them and made peace.  What helped them to succeed?  They applied some practical principles that have helped many friendships not only to survive rocky times but also to grow even stronger afterward. 

The principles involved can be found in the world's  most widely distributed book-the Bible. It encourages us to cultivate qualities that promote peace and heal emotional wound-qualities such as discernment, insight, kindness, love, and patience. -Proverbs 14:29. 1 Corinthians 13:4, 5. 

Frank and Jerry are just two examples of the Bible's power to change  lives for the better. There are many other examples, including people who overcame deeply entrenched negative traits. For instance, Robert, who lives in Australia, overcame deep-seated anger, Nelson,  in Timor-Leste, cast aside long-standing animosity and made a close friend of a former enemy. How did the Bible help Robert and Nelson? Awake! interviewed them to find out.

Next time: HOW CAN PEOPLE MAKE PEACE?/ROBERT

From the Awake! magazine