How Can I Protect Myself From Sexual Harassment?

The Bible's answer

Consider these practical suggestions based on wisdom found in the Bible: 

1. Be businesslike. Be pleasant and respectful to workmates, yet avoid the sort of friendliness that implies that you would accept their sexual interest. -Matthew 10:16; Colossians 4:6. 

2.  Dress modestly. Wearing provocative clothing sends the wrong message. (note: Also, work is a place of business and provocative clothing should not be worn while you are working, anyway.) The Bible recommends dressing with modesty and soundness of mind." -1 Timothy 2:9.

3. Choose your friends wisely. If you spend time with those who tolerate or even welcome flirting or sexual advances, you are more likely to receive the same treatment. -Proverbs 13:20. 

4. Reject offensive talk. Excuse yourself if a conversation turns into "dirt stories, foolish talk, or obscene jokes." -Ecclesiastes 5:4. God's Word, the Bible. 

5. Avoid compromising situations.   For example, beware of invitations to stay at work after hours without a valid reason. -Proverbs 22:3.

6. Be firm and direct. If you are sexually harassed, clearly tell your harasser that his or her behavior is unwelcome.  (1 Corinthians 14:9) For instance, you could say:  "You keep brushing against me, and it makes me very uncomfortable. I want you to stop."  You could write a letter to your harasser describing what happened, how it made you feel, and what you want to happen next. Make clear that your stance in based on your moral and religious convictions. -1 Thessalonians 4:3-5. 

7. Get help. If the harassment continues, confide in a trusted friend, family member, or coworker or in someone experienced in helping victims.  (Proverbs 27:9)  Many victims of sexual harassment have found support through prayer. Even if you haven't prayed before, don't underestimate the help you can receive from Jehovah, "the God of all comfort." -2 Corinthians 1:3. 

Sexual harassment creates a hostile work environment for millions, but the Bible can help.  

Note:  As for teenager girls, the dressing modestly works just as well, you are there to learn, not to pick  boys.  If you wear provocative clothes, you are saying that you are willing to go the distance. That is how boys think; not necessarily with the brains in their head.  If you want to be treated with respect, then you dress modestly and not like a hooker.  I have seen how some girls and women dress and they way they are dressed does not show they expect the respect they want to be shown. 

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