PREPARE FOR FUTURE ROLES - Continue

 You may choose to get married. The qualities and skills that we have discussed will help you to become a capable wife. Of course, if you are considering marriage, you should choose your mate very carefully. It is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Remember, you will come under the headship of the man you marry. (Romans 7:2; Ephesians 5:23, 33) So ask yourself: 'Is he a mature Christian? Is he putting spiritual interests first in his life? Does he make wise decisions? Can he admit his mistakes? Does he respect women? Does he have the skills to support me spiritually, materially, and emotionally? Does he handle responsibility well? For example, what congregation assignments does he have and how does he handle them? (Lukw 16:10; 1 Timothy 5:8) Of course, if you want to find a good perspective husband, you will need be a good perspective wife.

The Bible says that a good wife is "a helper" for her husband and "a complement" of him. (Genesis 2:18) Is this a demeaning description? Not! A wife's role as a helper is a dignified one. In fact, the Bible often describes Jehovah as a "helper." (Psalm 54:4; Hebrews 13:6) A wife is a true helper to her husband when she supports him and helps him to implement decisions that affect the family. And because she loves Jehovah, she works to enhance her husband's reputation. (Proverbs 31:11, 2; 1 Timothy 3:11) You can prepare for this possible future role by deepening your love for Jehovah and by being a helper to others at home and in the conregation.

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